From the Rabbi's Desk
May 2025
Friends, We are in the period of the Jewish calendar between Passover and Shavuot called S’firat HaOmer, the counting of the Omer. The first sheaf of the barley harvest, the Omer offering, was brought to the priest on the day after the Passover festival. The Torah instructs that we should count seven complete weeks from that day, and then on the fiftieth day, Shavuot is to be observed. As I have noted in previous bulletin articles, Shavuot is associated with the wheat harvest because wheat is planted and matures at a rate that brings its harvest approximately seven weeks after the barley harvest. Rabbi Mark Washofsky in Jewish Living: A Guide to Contemporary Reform Practice provides the spiritual link. “[The mitzvah of counting the Omer] can be seen as a means of linking Pesach, the season of our liberation, to its ultimate fulfillment in Shavuot, the season of giving the Torah. There is no ‘freedom,’ in other words, without Torah, without a system of meaning to be found in Jewish life and existence.” The Torah itself does not associate Shavuot, literally meaning ‘weeks’ as in the counting of the seven weeks, with the giving of the Torah, but instead with a purely agricultural meaning. Alternative names are Katzir, meaning ‘harvest,’ and bikkurim, meaning ‘first fruits.’ The rabbis connect Pesach and Shavuot, noting, ‘The Torah was given to Israel on the sixth day of the third month’ (Babylonian Talmud, Shabbat 86b). This day is Shavuot. Thus, they connected the redemption from slavery to the obligations of freedom. At our Seder table, we all read the exact words every year, “Make clear to your child on that day: ‘This is because of what Adonai did for me when I myself went forth from Egypt.’” We are to imagine that we were there over 3000 years ago. This imagining aims to build empathy for those oppressed in the present day. But remembrance and empathy are not enough. The Passover rituals also seek to renew in our hearts and minds the purpose of our freedom, which is to accept the obligations of Torah. Shavuot is the celebration of that acceptance. Between Passover and Shavuot, we count the days by reciting a specific prayer, noting each day by name in the prayer, as if focusing on each footstep from redemption to acceptance. Just as we have a Seder at the beginning of the spiritual journey, we have a Tikkun Leil Shavuot at the end. The Tikkun Leil Shavuot is a night of Jewish learning and engaging with Torah. As Jews have experienced both heights of prosperity and depths of despair throughout the millennia, our generational footsteps are firmly planted in these traditions, keeping us together as a people, focused on God’s mission for us to be seekers of justice, emissaries of peace and love, a light to the nations, and caretakers of this world. As the world is currently in great upheaval, it is all the more important that we ground ourselves in our Jewish values and express them in our actions. We will have a Tikkun Leil Shavuot, a night of learning and observing Shavuot, on Sunday, June 1, at 6 PM at Temple Emanu-El. Our theme is ‘Tasty Takes on the Ten.’ Rabbis Alter, Kideckel, Rabinowitz, Schwartz, and I will offer some Jewish teachings about the revelation of the Ten Commandments from surprising angles. To keep the agricultural theme, we’ll also have a cheesecake contest. We encourage bakers to bring their best cheesecake, whether traditional, creative, or vegan. Those who like to eat cheesecake are especially welcome. Sherry Barnes and Roz Etra will bring a festive mood to the evening with music. Of course, we will also include a short Ma’ariv service and recite Kaddish. Don’t sit at home watching the news. Instead, learn with us, immerse yourself in our values and traditions, and maybe make a new friend too. This is how we get through difficult times. L’Shalom, |
Cantorial Notes
May 2025
The days are getting a bit warmer and the flowers and trees are blooming! It’s also wonderful to have light longer in the day. Just a couple of things to think about before summer is upon us. If you are interested in leading a Summer Shabbat Service, reading Torah, or giving a D’var Torah, a short sermon based on Torah, please contact me at 860-443-3005, and I will be happy to sign you up. If you are interested in joining the choir for the High Holy Days, let me know this month or in June. Our 1st Annual Terri Goldsmith Golf Tournament is on May 5, and will support Temple Emanu-El and the Smilow Cancer Hospital. I hope you have signed up to play golf, be a volunteer, or maybe sponsor a hole. If you don’t golf, you are welcome to go to the Terri Goldsmith Memorial Golf Tournament website and sign up for dinner that evening. Terri Goldsmith was a very special person who loved helping others. Sometimes you knew she had helped, but many things she did were done quietly. Terri taught her students how important it was to do mitzvot. For many years her students would adopt a family to help at Thanksgiving. They would put together a basket of food to make sure this family had a special holiday. Her students also helped out a local animal shelter by donating blankets, food, and toys. Terri was definitely a mensch. Just sharing these memories with you puts a smile on my face and reminds me of how special she was and how much I loved her laugh. I’m looking forward to honoring her memory on May 5, by participating in this mitzvah, getting to share stories with others who knew her, and sharing who she was with those who may not. Thank you to Jeff Elkin for chanting Torah at the Share Shabbat Service. B’shir,
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Presidential Message
May 2025
Moms are incredible people. My loved to feed people and shared her joy through her confections. I love cooking her recipes and baking with her rolling pin. But most of all, my mom was a very faithful person. You know that saying that we become like our moms as we get older? I have found it to be so true. Whether our moms are still physically in our lives or they are angel moms, I believe they always remind us of the values, confidence, and strength which they role modeled for us. Moms have served as our teachers, motivating therapists, nurses, inspirational coaches, and strongest advocates throughout our lives. I wish all of our Temple family moms a very enjoyable Mother’s Day! I am very grateful to our Temple moms who are busy enough caring for their families yet they find the time to volunteer their time for the betterment of our community. Thanks for our Temple moms who serve as professional and lay leaders, direct and teach in our religious school, chair or serve in our committees, and lend us a hand in and around our building. We appreciate your loving kindness. Although as I write this message our first annual Terri Goldsmith Golf Tournament has not yet taken place, I am aware of the amount of work it has taken a huge number of people to plan thisimplement. Thank you to First Vice President and Golf Tournament Chairperson John Murphy for his vision and leadership and to his diligent committee members and all of the sponsors and donors for their generous support. Please refer to our website for a full list of our sponsors, donors, and volunteers. We are so grateful for their time and effort! The month of May also marks the winding down of religious school classes as the school year concludes on Sunday, May 19. School Director Lisa Marcus and Assistant to the Director Amy Orce have once again run the school this past year with meticulous organization, creativity, and tireless dedication. There have been many signs of hope and enthusiasm among our students and their active year-round participation. Thank you so much to all of our teachers who planned and presented engaging lessons for the kids and the faculty assistants who supported them. Our Board of Trustees is busy finalizing the content of this year’s annual report, which doubles as our June Bulletin issue. It will once again be a visually striking report that summarizes all of the work we’ve done to deliver on our goals for the year. You will receive it 20 days before the annual meeting which is scheduled on Sunday, June 8 at 10:00 a.m…mark your calendars and please plan to join us. Lehitra’ot,
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